Eeeer... This has been one of the most controversial arguments in the 21st century probably after Nigeria's many problems. I'm in no position to judge but hey! You gotta see my view.... here it goes. Some guys allegedly say that after all the stress they go through to "ask the girl out"., they still don't get what they want. I dont blame them obviously cuz the elements they saw in the girl isn't there anymore. Plus every guy needs attention. If another girl offers all the attention, why on earth wouldn't I give her mine? Tosin, my very logical friend says "awon okurin with okudili kokoro" Translation : Some boys and greed". She says they are not satisfied. I somehow agreed with her but hey! Some guys are impatient. If you dont know how to take care of your dude, another girl's gon' teach you and in a hard way. As for me, I ain't going to cheat on no one. As long as you are faithful, I'll remain 200% faithful. I've got a kid sister and I wont be happy if a guy messes with her heart when she's old enough for a relationship. Basically, I believe it's all about upbringing. Some guys are also influenced by their friends to cheat on their partners. REMEDY: I hate break-ups, so I believe both parties should sit and work out their differences. Talk about what could probably make you cheat. Might work though. YOURS AWESOMELY- DAYVE! From a girl's perspective From one who has cheated and been cheated on this is not going to be one of those write ups were I rant on a ten page article screaming "death to all cheaters", mentally fist pumping. Cheating cannot ever be "accepted" or "right". Not completely. It hurts and most of the time it sucks. Sometimes there isn't any reason for it. No mental intent or deep psychological need filled. Its just interest in someone other than your significant other that develops into something more. The distrust and hurt comes not from the fact that you became intimate with someone else but from the fact that that person feels like they weren't enough for you, that they were lacking in some way. We say guys have have egos. Truth is we may have bigger egos. Mostly we want a guy who believes the earth revolves around us. If we care enough to want that then cheating hurts because you aren't willing to make that leap with us. Hence the fury and hurt. We're angry with ourselves for trusting and angry with you for hurting us. Okay so maybe cheating isn't always black and white. Maybe its always one of the grayest areas in a relationship but if you are going to cheat just be sure you are not losing something far more important to you in the pursuit of a temporary thrill. Sucks to be an idiot and alone at the end. This whole article being my own humble opinion. Ora