Eeeer... This has been one of the most controversial arguments in the 21st century probably after Nigeria's many problems. I'm in no position to judge but hey! You gotta see my view.... here it goes. Some guys allegedly say that after all the stress they go through to "ask the girl out"., they still don't get what they want. I dont blame them obviously cuz the elements they saw in the girl isn't there anymore. Plus every guy needs attention. If another girl offers all the attention, why on earth wouldn't I give her mine? Tosin, my very logical friend says "awon okurin with okudili kokoro" Translation : Some boys and greed". She says they are not satisfied. I somehow agreed with her but hey! Some guys are impatient. If you dont know how to take care of your dude, another girl's gon' teach you and in a hard way. As for me, I ain't going to cheat on no one. As long as you are faithful, I'll remain 200% faithful. I've got a kid sister and I wont be happy if a guy messes with her heart when she's old enough for a relationship. Basically, I believe it's all about upbringing. Some guys are also influenced by their friends to cheat on their partners. REMEDY: I hate break-ups, so I believe both parties should sit and work out their differences. Talk about what could probably make you cheat. Might work though. YOURS AWESOMELY- DAYVE! From a girl's perspective From one who has cheated and been cheated on this is not going to be one of those write ups were I rant on a ten page article screaming "death to all cheaters", mentally fist pumping. Cheating cannot ever be "accepted" or "right". Not completely. It hurts and most of the time it sucks. Sometimes there isn't any reason for it. No mental intent or deep psychological need filled. Its just interest in someone other than your significant other that develops into something more. The distrust and hurt comes not from the fact that you became intimate with someone else but from the fact that that person feels like they weren't enough for you, that they were lacking in some way. We say guys have have egos. Truth is we may have bigger egos. Mostly we want a guy who believes the earth revolves around us. If we care enough to want that then cheating hurts because you aren't willing to make that leap with us. Hence the fury and hurt. We're angry with ourselves for trusting and angry with you for hurting us. Okay so maybe cheating isn't always black and white. Maybe its always one of the grayest areas in a relationship but if you are going to cheat just be sure you are not losing something far more important to you in the pursuit of a temporary thrill. Sucks to be an idiot and alone at the end. This whole article being my own humble opinion. Ora

John woke up at 3am dazed at the dream he just had. Tessy, his girlfriend of 6months held a knife to his throat. "Why in the world did that happen"?, he asked no one in particular. He prepared for lectures and bolted out of the room. On campus the air was so tense you could slice through it with a knife. People went about their businesses like every other day so john wondered why everywhere was tense, only for him to discover the registrar had died that morning. 4pm came very quickly just as everybody prayed for it to be and he hurried back to his room to retire for the day. He had hardly slept for 20mins when he heard a knock on the door. Immediately he opened the door, tessy barges in with rage and fury like she had lost a bet with the devil. "Where's the money for my human hair?" She asked without greeting him. "Good evening to you too", he replied backing her. "You Poor hopeless bastard". She shot back at him. As he turned back to look at her ..... Hold it a minute, lemme paint the picture better so you dont get it twisted like a lemon in a spirit. John was a final year accounting student doing really great and was a "big boy". As a matter of fact, folks joked that he's got more "cheese" than rats in the USA. He had just broken up with joan when he met tessy. Tessy, a pretty 3rd year student was a normal innocent girlie, so he thought ... He was introduced to her at his friend's birthday party. *í dσn't trust pαrtч pαrσlєs,* anyways, they got to know each other better and they started seeing each other. John thought he had found a wife.. *ℓσℓ* until after four months she started to show him what she was made of. She had a problem. She never understood hard times. . . . . . WHAAAAAMMMM!!!!!!.. John woke up feeling sharp pains in his head. He felt like his brain was having a serious pounding and could fall off any minute. "Ah! Mr. Nwosu". The lousy health centre doctor exclaimed. How are you feeling? He asked. John managed to utter just a "fine". He later found out tessy had hit him with the butt of her MK45 automatic pistol. He felt damned!!. He remembered how he had told her a week ago that he was having financial problems... I mean *scoffs* who doesn't?. Tess as i'd choose to call her was being ill-advised. She had "thug" friends. Plus she had connections with a female cult gang ... hence the gun. *I remember mama warning me bout bad company* How? Why? were the questions that filled his mind as he lay on the tattered bed. Then he remembered the dream he had that morning. He tried to pray but couldn't. He broke down into tears. His emotions have finally betrayed him. He thought of calling his mum but she had warned him earlier bout tessy. He felt so alone, very alone. He reminisced on how they had been so in love. He laughed. "I should've asked kemi out instead". John recovered from concussion but what he could not understand was why she would send his soul to eternity because of another "HUMAN'S HAIR". . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . tσ вє cσntd.

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